Dress is from Adelyn Rae. Shoes and Purse are from Sole Society.
Ever find yourself wondering what to wear to a semi formal event? I, like most every other woman, have more clothes than time, places or occasions to wear them all. The classic move of having a large wardrobe: numerous forgotten items of clothing, most brand new or never worn with tags still attached, buried under other “in the moment” clothes. Thus, falling deep into the closet’s abyss.
This is especially true for me, as a blogger and influencer. Unfortunately, I am all too familiar with the “closet abyss.” Chances are y’all would find my formal attire at the bottom of my “abyss”. Special occasion wear is SPECIAL, therefore it tends to be hidden by the more “daily wear” items.
As much as I would like to think I’m “Queen” (can I get a “YASSSSS”): Every night being a special occasion or an excuse to dress to the nines; Endless options of formal attire picked out for me weeks before the event- no stress, just perfection; The spotlight-on-me-roll-out-the-red-carpet and take 3 hours to get ready with no children to interrupt and a glass, just kidding-bottle, of Prosecco in hand, kind of night. Shockingly, however, it’s not my reality. There is no “YASSSSS Queen.” Just “Nope.” “Nope Queen.”
Regardless. Queen or not, formal events do happen. The question then being, “What to wear to a formal event?” Formal events in my mind range anywhere from a concert at the symphony to work events, weddings, award ceremonies, etc. It really depends on you or your significant others’ social butterfly status.
What to Wear to a Semi Formal Event
When you hear the word formal, what comes to mind? I think we tend to associate the word “formal” with pricey or ultra conservative. But honestly, it doesn’t have to be either. My closet’s formal wear consists of timeless pieces that are chic, classy and make me feel like a “Queen” without the royal price tag or being over-the-top.
Now, if the first thought that crosses your mind when faced with an invitation to a formal event is “white, all white.” It must either be an invitation from Puff Daddy to one of his parties or you are THAT individual that wears all white to weddings. I’m going to assume it is the latter of the two and if that is the case, just don’t. In fact, as a general rule of thumb, when it comes to “formal” wear, I steer away from white. I also have 2 kids, 2 dogs, makeup and pre-event glass of wine to figure into the equation. Nevertheless, white just stains too easily; but you know what color doesn’t stain easily- black.
We always resort to black but dark blue, worn correctly, can be very flattering and elegant. The dress I am modeling proves this point. It shows off my figure without revealing too much skin. The lace material with white floral pattern both add a feminine touch which allow me to feel confident in a tastefully sexy way. Pairing with dress with nude flats that have slight heel provides just enough glam without the discomfort of high heels or the risk of being too va-va-voom. Just keep it simple and let your accessories or hair and makeup make the ultimate statement. With these basic tips, you will belle of the ball without the stress. And if all else fails ask yourself, “W.W.K.M.D”- “What Would Kate Middleton Do?” Because, duh, she is a REAL princess and future Queen. “YASSSS.” Do you have any tips on what to wear to a semi formal event? Let me know in a comment below!
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